Passbook for Marriage Life
Saturday, November 14th, 2009
Have you ever thought of how a marriage life would be? How to maintain a life together with your loved one? I believe it would not be an easy task but a lot of things can be changed if we try to our best to keep the relationship works. Just would like to share one of the article which I found that very meaningful.
Here is the sharing:
Jocelyn married William this day. At the end of the wedding party, Jocelyn’s mother gave her a newly opened bank saving passbook. With $1000 deposit amount.
Mother: ‘Jocelyn, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your marriage life. When there’s something happy and memorable happened in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it’s about next to the line. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I’ve done the first one for you today. Do the others with William. When you look back after years, you can know how much happiness you’ve had.’
Jocelyn shared this with William when getting home. They both thought it was a great idea and were anxious to know when the second deposit can be made.
This was what they did after certain time:
- 7 Feb: $100, first birthday celebration for William after marriage
- 1 Mar: $300, salary raise for Jocelyn
- 20 Mar: $200, vacation trip to Bali
- 15 Apr: $2000, Jocelyn got pregnant
- 1 Jun: $1000, William got promoted
…. and so on…
However, after years, they started fighting and arguing for trivial things. They didn’t talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty people in the world…. no more love…Kind of typical nowadays, huh?
One day Jocelyn talked to her Mother: ‘Mom, we can’t stand it anymore. We agree to divorce. I can’t imagine how I decided to marry this guy!!!’
Mother: ‘Sure, girl, that’s no big deal. Just do whatever you want if you really can’t stand it. But before that, do one thing first. Remember the saving passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn’t keep any record of such a poor marriage.’
Jocelyn thought it was true. So she went to the bank, waiting at the queue and planning to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joy and happiness just came up her mind. Her eyes were then filled with tears. She left and went home. When she was home, she handed the passbook to William, asked him to spend the money before getting divorce.
The next day, William gave the passbook back to Jocelyn. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record: ‘This is the day I notice how much I’ve loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you’ve brought me.’
They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back to the safe. Do you know how much money they had saved when they retired? I did not ask. I believe the money did not matter any more after they had gone thru all the good years in their life.
After finish reading this article, I like this sentence so much. “This is the day I notice how much I’ve loved you thru out all these years. How much happiness you’ve brought me.” Although this is just a simple sentence, I feel the meaning behind it is definitely more than a normal simple conversation. Just imagine that if you are in that situation, how would you feel.
Sometimes when we argue or get mad to each other, we hardly can recall the sweet and good memories that we have had together before. If we make decision at that time, woud we regret in the future? No one knows, time will tell.
Category : Story, Theory Or Thought
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